As an author, one of the most fulfilling aspects of my journey has been the opportunity to support and uplift those around me. It's a belief I hold dear - support should always be a two-way street. This reciprocity not only enriches our personal and professional lives but also fosters a community of mutual respect and encouragement.
One of my favorite endeavors is to extend a helping hand to those who need it, especially those who have shown me support in my own career. There's a profound joy in giving back to the community that has been a pillar for me. However, it's not always a path strewn with roses. There have been times when this support was taken for granted, not reciprocated, or even mocked behind the veil of private forums. It's disheartening to realize that the sincerity of your efforts is not always visible to everyone.
Despite these challenges, I've learned a valuable lesson: the truth always surfaces. It might be invisible for a time, shrouded in the shadows of misunderstanding or malice, but it eventually finds its way into the light. In response to these experiences, I've decided to adopt a new approach. I will not engage in confrontations or step out of my character to address wrongs, especially those I haven't directly witnessed. Instead, I will move differently, be more discerning with where and how I offer my support.
What I will continue to do, unwaveringly, is to cherish and uplift my true supporters. My focus will remain on those who stand with me, sharing in our collective successes and challenges. It's a philosophy we embrace wholeheartedly – you're not truly winning if you're the only one succeeding while others falter. True leadership, true 'boss' status, is about lifting others as you climb.
The year 2023 was an eye-opener in many ways. It taught me about resilience, discernment, and the unshakable value of genuine connections. As I step into 2024, I carry these lessons with me. I may be slightly different – perhaps more cautious and contemplative – but my essence remains the same. I will continue to be the light, not just for myself, but for those who walk this path with me. It's about being more of myself – the light, not the shadow.
In conclusion, the journey of an author is as much about writing stories as it is about being a part of them. It's about building a community where support flows both ways, where every member lifts and is lifted. Here's to a 2024 filled with mutual respect, support, and success. Let's be the light together, even in the darkest of my fantastical realms!
xoxo
Ari